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    am I the only one that has fights over sex?

    its not what you would think. I have recently had a fight because i didnt get off soon like other guys she has been with....isn't the point to last longer to make sure the woman get off 1st?....I was trying to last until then, using all the tricks that guys use, but then it turned out that she thought I wasn't turned on enough by her...I am so confused, please offer some advise

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    The only time I would complain about sex taking too long is if I was not enjoying it. Does she have orgasms? I kind of doubt it.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    She obviously isn't enjoying it.

    You shouldn't be arguing about this stuff. Instead, have a calm chat about what you like in the bedroom. Be open-minded, listen to each other, and keep the conversation positive.

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    Thats kinda weird to have an actual fight over it rather than just talking about it. maybe she is insecure about her body and is letting u know she wants u to compliment her more and make her feel hot. Otherwise she wouldnt have said u obviously arent turned on enough by her.

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    I think she must be insecure. She must be thinking, "why isn't he finishing more quickly from me?" because she probably finds herself unattractive.

    Tell her you want to keep it going as long as possible because you LOVE having sex with her, and you find her amazingly beautiful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by queenofheartsNY View Post
    I think she must be insecure. She must be thinking, "why isn't he finishing more quickly from me?" because she probably finds herself unattractive.

    Tell her you want to keep it going as long as possible because you LOVE having sex with her, and you find her amazingly beautiful.
    what if someone is not beautiful? do you have to lie?
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    I would imagine that if you're in a relationship and you're having sex with that person regularly, you would find them attractive, no?

    I couldn't be with someone or have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Could you?

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    some people partner the ones they can get.
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    I enjoy sex until I get off. Once I get off, I'm pretty much done, so if he doesn't finished soon thereafter we're done, it hurts, I'm dry, I'm uncomfortable and it irritates me (physically).

    I love to have it, just not prolonged amounts of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mjfcap View Post
    its not what you would think. I have recently had a fight because i didnt get off soon like other guys she has been with....isn't the point to last longer to make sure the woman get off 1st?....I was trying to last until then, using all the tricks that guys use, but then it turned out that she thought I wasn't turned on enough by her...I am so confused, please offer some advise
    She's got issues and you aren't one of them.
    The only fault you need to own is the fact you did NOT talk to her about sex before you had it!

    Without communication an emotionally handicapped woman is going to B-lame you for shit she never communicated
    to you about because this is how women are.

    They expect you to (and I quote) "just know."

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    I enjoy sex until I get off. Once I get off, I'm pretty much done
    After only one time?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    After only one time?
    It is extremely uncomfortable to continue stimulation after I've been stimulated. Never, have I had multiple orgasms. in fact I'm petrified of them to me that would equal tremendous pain. Eeek. My body does not like that.

    So yes, one and only one.

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    Don't worry! That'll change once you hit your sexual peak!
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Don't worry! That'll change once you hit your sexual peak!
    Perhaps. Why were you like that? I guess (getting graphic) my clit is super sensitive. If touched directly I sqruirm (not in pleasure). Once I get off, don't dare touch my clit, it hurts!

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