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[shinygrey]

I started a blog about relationships and I decided to write a kind of interview post about worst breakups. Since "breakup" is a very lonely, but popular experience, this post is meant to help people going through it. If you want to help me, post a reply telling me about:
Worst breakup experience
How did you get over it?
How soon did you recover?



Thank you

[VincenzoG91]

Worst breakup experience: This woman answered my best friend's classified ad and sent him a picture, but he thought she was more my type, so he gave me her picture and number. I went out with her a few times and thought we had great chemistry. The morning of our fourth date (which she strongly hinted would include sex), I got a phone call that my grandfather had died. I called her immediately to re-schedule for the following weekend, then packed a bag and drove to my grandmother's house. When I got back in town after the funeral, I was still sad, because he was a really great guy and a war hero. Also, I now had a cold. On my answering machine was a message from the woman, asking to re-schedule for Sunday afternoon, which seemed odd. On Sunday, she broke up with me at a busy sidewalk cafe, telling me that she met another guy and slept with him. I was tired, sick and sad, and unexpectedly starting crying. It was ridiculous, I hadn't even known her for a month. Then she told me that she was going to experiment with being a lesbian for a while. I asked her if maybe we could do a threesome some time, and she said no. She said that we could be friends, but moved and changed her phone number within days.

How I got over it: I decided to give the blind dating thing a try, and met an interesting woman that shared some of my interests.

How soon did I recover: About a month.

[shinygrey]

Thanks Vincenzo and sorry for your bad experience and for the death of your grandfather.