I have been best friends with this girl I know for almost three years now. Throughout our friendship we have flirted, but never admited to liking each other. Recently I told her how I feel about her. It started out well, she said she felt the same way. She just said it was bad timing because she just broke up with a guy. After we have been talk these past couple days, she and I are supposed to go on a date friday. However, she called me today crying saying she is in love with her ex and breaking up with him, is killing her. So being her best friend, I told her to talk to him, and if she thinks she wants to, try to get him back. I know in my mind I did the right thing. All I want is for her to be happy, but I feel like I have blown my only chance with her. I never told that I love her, all I told her is that I care for her a lot. I feel so bad right now. I don't know what to do with myself at the moment. Can someone please help me out and give me some advice, words of wisdom, encouragement, anything. Please. I have a history of depression and just can't take things like this.