What Annoyed you today

[Sonrisa]

"10% of practicing clinicians, psychiatrists and other branches of medicine, will at some stage in their career, break a boundary and have sexual relationships with patients."

[Sonrisa]

"Psychiatrists have the same range of mental illness as the whole community, so it does happen. Not all of them will take it out on their patients, they may experience their illness in other ways."

[Sonrisa]

when a psychologist develops feelings towards his patient, he needs to be open about and tell the patient about his feelings and then they both have to decided if they would be comfortable continuing their sessions or if she needs to switch to someone else.

[qwertz]

when a psychologist develops feelings towards his patient, he needs to be open about and tell the patient about his feelings and then they both have to decided if they would be comfortable continuing their sessions or if she needs to switch to someone else.

I sure as hell wish he hadnt said anything. He had no right to ask, and he knows i have a bf, that im just getting my life back on track, and as the professional treating me, he knows so much personal stuff that would make it totally inappropriate for him to ask.

Anyway, i have cancelled my next session. I wont be going again and i cant face seeing anyone else, hopefully i wont turn back into a fruitloop!

[Sonrisa]

I sure as hell wish he hadnt said anything. He had no right to ask, and he knows i have a bf, that im just getting my life back on track, and as the professional treating me, he knows so much personal stuff that would make it totally inappropriate for him to ask.

Anyway, i have cancelled my next session. I wont be going again and i cant face seeing anyone else, hopefully i wont turn back into a fruitloop!

what you need to realize is that they are just as screwed up as you are, only they get paid for it. you can control ALL aspects of your life and there's nothing anyone else can say would make it better/simpler.

[Sonrisa]

"Society has enfeebled man, not merely by robbing him of the right to his own strength, but still more by making his strength insufficient for his needs. " JJR

[qwertz]

. you can control ALL aspects of your life and there's nothing anyone else can say would make it better/simpler.

"Society has enfeebled man, not merely by robbing him of the right to his own strength, but still more by making his strength insufficient for his needs. " JJR

I take it this is aimed at me for seeing a shrink in the first place? Maybe i dont need it now, maybe i do but i dont know, i sure as hell feel like i still need it. I dont want to go back to the dark place i was before. Going to these sessions has enabled me to gain more strength than i had before, that isnt a bad thing, i think people who read my posts a year ago would agree with me there. I needed help, so i went out and got it, theres nothing wrong with needing a little helping hand with life.

[Sonrisa]

I take it this is aimed at me for seeing a shrink in the first place? Maybe i dont need it now, maybe i do but i dont know, i sure as hell feel like i still need it. I dont want to go back to the dark place i was before. Going to these sessions has enabled me to gain more strength than i had before, that isnt a bad thing, i think people who read my posts a year ago would agree with me there. I needed help, so i went out and got it, theres nothing wrong with needing a little helping hand with life.

once again, it's only your choice. I remember your posts when you first joined and have always advocated against it. you can either not create the dark place or have a close friend who can listen to you for an hour and that will get you out of that dark place. i 100% empathize with your situation and hope you can find a better place for yourself.

[qwertz]

once again, it's only your choice. I remember your posts when you first joined and have always advocated against it. you can either not create the dark place or have a close friend who can listen to you for an hour and that will get you out of that dark place. i 100% empathize with your situation and hope you can find a better place for yourself.

Your serious??? Jeez, having a friend to talk to about 'normal' problems would work, maybe but i dont think(in fact i know) any friend could have helped me. You really have no clue. I dont/didnt have a choice about those dark thoughts and days.
You are just being ignorant now.

[Sonrisa]

Your serious??? Jeez, having a friend to talk to about 'normal' problems would work, maybe but i dont think(in fact i know) any friend could have helped with my constant nightmares/flashbacks and dark thoughts that stem from watching your own child die in front of your eyes. You really have no clue. I dont/didnt have a choice about those dark thoughts and days.
You are just being ignorant now.

I also remember Coco trying to convince me/us how she was traumatized from birth by losing her twin at something like 9 months. why do you have to feel defensive/offensive towards me? i am not judging you or telling you what to do.

[qwertz]

I'm not trying to convince anyone of anything. You are just proving how ignorant you are. Anyway im done with this conversation.

[Sonrisa]

I'm not trying to convince anyone of anything. You are just proving how ignorant you are. Anyway im done with this conversation.

you're the one who depends on help of people who are most likely most screwed up than you, and i am the ignorant one? FYI I am INDIGNANT.

[qwertz]

Ok, so me depending on the help of a professional is ignorant?? how do you work that one out? All you have done is attack me, firstly for being annoyed that a health PROFESSIONAL asking me out, and now for seeing that professional in the first place. What do you think i should have done instead of getting professional help then?

[Sonrisa]

Ok, so me depending on the help of a professional is ignorant?? how do you work that one out? All you have done is attack me, firstly for being annoyed that a health PROFESSIONAL asking me out, and now for seeing that professional in the first place. What do you think i should have done instead of getting professional help then?

i don't remember attacking YOU. i simply expressing my opinion on the situation. if that was me and he was the one on whom i relied for mental health, i'd go to a session and ask him if he has any sexual feelings toward me. you choose it differently which is fine - no judging whatsoever.
it's your choice, i merely here for the entertainment.

[SelflessnHumble]

i don't remember attacking YOU. i simply expressing my opinion on the situation. if that was me and he was the one on whom i relied for mental health, i'd go to a session and ask him if he has any sexual feelings toward me. you choose it differently which is fine - no judging whatsoever.
it's your choice, i merely here for the entertainment.

Allow me. You paint a picture that resembles Qwertz...then you shit on it and insult it.
Then you claim you weren't talking about HER which means you're side stepping the issue.

Why aren't you getting this?
You are hilarious!

You are suggesting that a "mental help professional" be given the chance to see whether or not HE has "sexual feelings" towards Qwertz as asking her out (is harmless) because:

(1) She confided in a professional for a reason: to get help, not for this man to mentally undress her and use her inner most revealed confessions as ammo against her in order to woo her if she continued her sessions with this guy and

(2) SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND



Hello?

So are you telling me that she should talk to him about his feelings towards her
so that she can ascertain if being attracted to her means him wanting sex? Or
him just being nice and friendly? Uh huh.