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Thread: Should I be worried? Could he be cheating on me?

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    Should I be worried? Could he be cheating on me?

    My bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He said he still loves me but things arent going to work because I cant see him too often (im not allowed to date). We saw each other the week after, and we made out, he initiates it. Another week passed without seing him, and no contact. Then i decided to message him, we talked, and now were back together.

    But, just yesterday...I went on his computer to check my mail...his facebook was open on his inbox page. I saw this last message he left to a certain girl he met in his previous school:
    " do you still want to meet tomorrow? We could have a supper at my house and then play pool." , 16 march ( this is the week after we made out)
    I know its wrong....but i couldnt help it... I clicked on the message to know more...
    and I saw that they met several times, i cant remember everything, I look at it very fast. But i remember a date, 28 november,we were still a couple then...

    Could he be cheating on me? I know that the 16 march, we werent a couple anymore, but stillll, it wasnt even a week after he kissed me! and what about the other dates before?? or maybe shes just a friend? he never told me about her.. and i dont like the fact that he brings her at his house..

    I dont know what to do... Should I talk to him about it? but I cant tell him that I looked at his messages, he would be mad.. How should I do the approach? I have to do something, its keeping me from sleep.

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    This is a sign of cheating. Since you can't see each other very often he might take the chance of "freedom". However,I'm sorry I can't tell you what is the right way to approach him. You need to be a smart girl.

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    You are not allowed to date? How old are you? He's probably frustrated

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeeMyHonee View Post
    (im not allowed to date).
    How so?

    It's *possible* that she's just a friend and he hasn't mentioned her because he assumes that you would get jealous. Have you showed jealosy before?

    He broke up with you once already. I'm guessing that he isn't quite happy in your relationship if you still can't see him very often even though you managed to talk him back. He is probably testing the waters with this other girl to see if she's interested. If that's the case and she is, he'll dump you.

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