Hook up or Relationship?

[CollegeGirl]

Hey guys! So me and some of my girlfriends were talking last night about how a lot of guys nowadays really aren't looking for relationships, but instead are looking for casual hook ups. I was hoping that y'all could provide some insight into the signs to look for to know whether a guys is interested in having a real relationship with you, or whether he is simply looking to get laid. Thanks!!

[98db]

If you tell him you are looking for a relationship and he doesn't run, than that is a pretty good start. Other things you could look at are his track record. Somebody that dates <5 people a year and those people exclusively is probably more into relationships than flings.

[smackie9]

Date shy nerdy guys with no experience from school and you will have them loving you forever.

[cheeze_guy]

It depends on the guy so pretty much you will never know until the next week and if you are still talking or if he never calls... I personally am looking for a relationship but in my pursuit of happiness one night stands do happen and when they do it's not because I was looking for a once night stand it's because we got drunk and made bad decisions. A guy looking for ladies at a club is not looking for a relationship... that's a good rule!