heeey everyone
im new to all this
i just joined to see if anyone can give me advice on how to save my maybe ruined relationship,

i have been with the guy for 4 years now and i slowly feel like i am turning into his slave, he always puts me down and never seems to care about how i feel.
I guess i could slow hes slowly gained control over me, and i want advice on how to get it back equal without ruining everything