I am not usually like this. I have been through my bfs phone a couple of time (which he hates) but I found texts to his ex which id had an inkling he still had feelings for and found messages aking her when they were going halfs in a hotel room, why she chose the other guy over him and telling her she was impossible to have a relationship with. This was on Valentine's day and I lost it and left. I made him delete her off facebook as he used to delete her add her, delete her add her and I was just sick of it. I only found out the other day he had been ringing her and talking to her. Just the other day too. I asked him about it and he said she texted him a month ago but I told him he lied. Busted! He then said yeh OK I did so what I was just trying to get some things back off her. He has since been denying that's he the one in the wrong and sais the only reason he didn't tell me was Because I'm always trying to get him in trouble.
Am I taking this too far? Or am I write to just my judgetment? Is he taking advantage of me keeping on coming back? We do spend a lot of time with each other