talk some sense in me

[forgiveme]

hey hi friends i am new to this forum and i really joined it thinking you people will help me.

see i am in relation with her for quite sometime and it is very strong,she loves me very much and i do too.we intend to marry.but i have certain issues.

1)my gf is in mass media and she is bound to meet celebs.sometimes she clicks her pics with them and is a lot happy to do that.but i want to ask her who means more to her me or that celeb.i get hurt when she does this.

2)she loves cricket a lot but i dont share the same enthusiasm like her.so when she goes to watch a match,i feel she forgets me.she gets overjoyed watching it.what should i do?i feel jealous whenever the reason for her happiness is not me.be it whatever.i feel like being always the reason for her happiness.is there any way out of this.can anyone please talk some sense in me.


please help.i am very sad about my character.i dont want to lose her.

[Spring Haze]

Codependency is not healthy. Do you enjoy things without your girlfriend? You have to realize that having hobbies and other interests are part of a healthy person's life, and they do not take your girlfriend's interest in you away. She is happy, and that should make you happy, not jealous. It wouldn't be fair to her if she only felt happiness while thinking of you or while in your presence.

[forgiveme]

i do enjoy things without my girlfriend but sometimes i miss her while i am happy being unable to share it with her.i understand your concern but i cannot help myself.i need someone to talk experience of their own or someone else's who have passed through a phase same as mine and can help me get through this difficult time.i go home twice a year and thats the only time i get to see her.
THANKS for your help spring haze.i appreciate you finding time to help me.