Cant seem to move on

[Toddstar]

Hi all,
I have posted here before, my ex and I broke up a year ago, reconciled in January and lasted one month. We share a 3 yr old boy and really wanted to make it work. We split after a month and within a week she was seeing other people through a dating site. I have met someone else who really likes me but I cant get over the ex. I dont think it is fair to the new woman. Loving someone else still while dating someone new is not fair.

I am really in a predicament; I dont think my ex will ever want me back, i think she is happy with her new guy. I cant sleep, I dont eat, I am losing weight due to anxiety when I think of her; she wanted to be friends but I said I just couldnt because I would fall in love with her all over again. We dont even talk during the pick ups/drop offs of our son.

BUT...after the non-verbal pick up of our son yesterday, she emailed me 30 mins after and asked "So when do I get to meet (new girl's name here)? "

I went crazy! Why eamil me that? We arent friends, we are co-parents only. I have never nor do I have any intention of meeting her bf's! What is she doing? I think it could be jealousy or proving she still can mess with my head because she can. I didnt email her back and I have no intention of doing so.

Fact is I still love her TOO MUCH and she seems to not care about me anymore. I am having trouble moving on.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Keep ignoring her. Don't initiate or respond to anything not directly related to your son. To answer your question, she was seeing if she still had some control over you. Just don't show her that she does, and pretty soon, she won't.