Masturbating while your girlfriend is asleep?

[whatthis]

Sounds to me like he's a bit of a sex addict considering the fact that he needs to jack off on top of how much sex you guys have already. But hey - nothing wrong with that as long as he's a functional human being and jacking off is not the only thing he does.

And like many posters above me have commented, masturbation requires a lot less effort and he can be done pretty quick. That's probably why he doesn't come get you every time.

[Confused1986]

I've been in a similar situation. It makes you feel like ass. Sometimes almost makes you feel replaced. In my situation my ex started out the way your man is, in the end, I was totally being replaced. I never had a problem with him waking me up, and believe me, things were never boring. He told me that it was a hobbie for him, and that it was the view that he liked... I'm not saying this will happen to you, but watch out.

[Looq]

And like many posters above me have commented, masturbation requires a lot less effort and he can be done pretty quick. That's probably why he doesn't come get you every time.

That's what quickies are for.

I've been in a similar situation. It makes you feel like ass. Sometimes almost makes you feel replaced. In my situation my ex started out the way your man is, in the end, I was totally being replaced. I never had a problem with him waking me up, and believe me, things were never boring. He told me that it was a hobbie for him, and that it was the view that he liked... I'm not saying this will happen to you, but watch out.

This is ridiculous. I am genuinely speechless. I know I'm young and therefore have an particularly active libido, but come on, there's plenty of time to masturbate when your single.

[JadenMia]

This is something i used to wonder with my ex all the time!!! Why did he feel the need to masterbate.. all the time. And we were having sex *at least* once or twice a day.. Everyday wthout fail.
Could that have been sex addiction? He usually used to wake me up in the morning for a quickie before work.. Which i didnt mind.
But then one day he told me he sometimes used to masterbate while i was asleep, and told me once he even blew a load.. in my face as i was sleeping What the hell is that all about.
I totally remember waking up too feeling like my face was stuck.. Funny, but not so funny when i heard he had done that. lol

[Queezy1993]

Man, I almost find that weird. Personally, I would never go jack off if I had a willing girlfriend.. then again I don't find porn that interesting. Can't you ask him why he sometimes prefers to jack off when you are available to him?

The only reason I would be jacking would be if my girlfriend hardly gave me any sex.

Lol, jaden.. don't you find that a bit disrespectful, blowing his load in your face while sleeping..?

[steviej]

Thats hilarious, did he take a pic?!

[Looq]

This is something i used to wonder with my ex all the time!!! Why did he feel the need to masterbate.. all the time. And we were having sex *at least* once or twice a day.. Everyday wthout fail.
Could that have been sex addiction? He usually used to wake me up in the morning for a quickie before work.. Which i didnt mind.
But then one day he told me he sometimes used to masterbate while i was asleep, and told me once he even blew a load.. in my face as i was sleeping What the hell is that all about.
I totally remember waking up too feeling like my face was stuck.. Funny, but not so funny when i heard he had done that. lol

Oh. My. God. On soooo many levels.

First that is a hell of a lot of sex, if he still finds the need to masturbate, then there is something wrong with him. Second, next to you!? Doing it while you're asleep is one thing, if he's leaving to go to the bathroom or downstairs, but in the bed next to you. That's just wrong. And what he did to your face is especially wrong (if hilarious), even if it was an accident.

Do you think you girls could get together and train my girlfriend to be sexual as you? In return I'll train your guys to appreciate what they have! /jealous

[JadenMia]

Yeah we were always that way ever since we started having sex.. Our sex life was amazing and i didnt think it was actually considered abnormal to have sex that much until i spoke to friends and stuff.. They were all like 'WOW.. that is alot of sex.' lol.. It was like that right up until we broke up after nearly 2 years..
And yes, i found it incredibly insulting and disrespectful. Hence why he is my ex
I had a little laugh out of the fact he actually did that.. More out of disbelief than anything, i couldnt actually believe he did that. It was a few days afterward he actually came clean about it. Because i woke up complaining my face felt weird and he was smirking and followed me to the kitchen when i went to go get a drink.. Like.. WTF was he thinking.
When we were together, my sex drive was so high.. I dont know what it was about him. And he claimed he jacked off even though we had sex that much as it helped him last longer when we did have sex. Which was kind of believable because on the days he didnt get off, he would come in a matter of seconds.. lol
He also claimed he even fondled me while i slept and stuff.. Like.. I just dont know, he was mind boggling. Like i didnt give him enough cheeezus.

[Queezy1993]

Could someone ban this guy he is trying to spread a virus ^.

[qwertz]

This would totally piss me off with my current bf..he's a once or twice a week kinda guy so if he was jerking himself off i would be annoyed he didnt wake me up. Though i dont have a problem with a guy getting himself off(so long as im already satisfied and its not instead of sex) if im asleep...i like my sleep

[bloodtippedrose]

Ive asked my bf this before and what he said is when he jerks off, he wipes up with a napkin or tp and continues doing whatever, but when I'm done with him he usually has to get in the shower, because I get him all wet and sticky. So basically he jerks off when he is feeling too lazy to shower off ;P

theres other reasons though which are the same why I masturbate when he's home, such as it feels different and our fetishes can be easily satisfied with porn whereas gf's and bf's arent always 100% up to satisfying fetishes.

[His Girlfriend]

Well I asked my bf, why he went and looked at porn when I was there so willing... He said he was just trying to distract himself... from heartburn... He never jacked off though*roll eyes here* Never even got hard. I had no idea that there was a point to look at porn just to look at porn. I feel like he is talking in circles. Like there is something that I am missing... As for the masturbating on you while you are sleeping I find myself having to put forth my opinion, I love it when my bf has sex with me while I am sleeping, I love waking up to him touching licking well you get the point. I do like him playing with himself beside me, cumming on my face? no maybe not so much, but on my ass, using my hand, on my stomach... I find it very erotic... I love being his muse... Hate when I am not...

[bloodtippedrose]

Well I asked my bf, why he went and looked at porn when I was there so willing... He said he was just trying to distract himself... from heartburn... He never jacked off though*roll eyes here* Never even got hard. I had no idea that there was a point to look at porn just to look at porn.

I have never really gave a thought to watching porn without masturbating. Who does that? :/ Ive talked to guys I knew in high school and they have chilled watching porn together. WTF?!