Head Games...

[EmptyChurch]

Hello All...

This thread tells the backstory between me and this girl...

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/52169-very-strong-feelings-someone-i-cant-have.html[/url]

I think I seriously screwed things up with her... That story is told in this thread...

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/52261-i-jerk.html[/url]

I"m sorry to link back to these threads. I know it's not that great of forum etiquette. But I am in a little bit of a hurry right now and don't have time to type all the background info between us.

I haven't talked to her since Tuesday... I was really starting to miss talking to her. I've been checking to see if she's online all night long. Finally she came on and I IMed her. Our conversation was three IMs long. She was friendly... but she didn't seem like herself. Then she just signed off abruptly and hasn't been on since.

I don't know if she's still pissed about the whole threesome thing or what. I saw her on Saturday and everything was fine. Better then fine in fact. I thought we had a really good time on Saturday. Now this. I don't talk to her hardly at all all week and when I do she brushes me off?

So, should I just step back and let her come to me?

I thought about sending her a short message just saying I'm sorry if I caught her at a bad time. Should I do that?

I care so much about her. I don't want to scare her away. I think I might have already...

Please help me out here.

Oh, and for those of you who followed my other thread... I have an appointment to talk to someone about legal help in two weeks.

[EmptyChurch]

I must really be hated here. Sorry all.

[MerryH]

I don't know if it's that people hate you, I think it has more to do with people not wanting to "help" you cheat on your girlfriend.

Good luck with that appointment, though.

[EmptyChurch]

Ok, is no one replying here because everyone thinks I'm an asshole and has decided to boycott my threads or something?

[steviej]

Personally, i tend to only give advice on stuff i feel i have a good knowledge or lots of experience of. Your situation however is quite different to anything i've been involved with.
However, generally when a girl is a bit annoyed at you giving them a few days to calm down before getting in touch is the best way. You had a good time with her on Saturday? She then is short with you on IM? Leave her be for a few days, either wait for her to contact you or tentatively try again.