Hi, posted in the advice thread but then saw this one ..... basically I had a friendship with a work colleague 4 years ago, over about 18 months, that ended up being flirty and moved towards more than friendship, but then with him ignoring me after the first night we spent together. Still had to work together for a few months more, was horrible.
He got in contact again about 3 months ago, apologised for the way he had been back then, said he had matured and would like to take me out for a drink when he was training with his new work near my town. (He's now in the Forces). So 3 months of texting and chatting followed, got on really well like we always did before.
He came down last weekend, stayed with me, (not sure I need to mention this but no nothing happened other than kissing and cuddling!), was very positive and vocal about apologising for his behaviour before and that he wanted to spend more time with me over the 5 weeks he is stationed nearby.
I waited for him to text after the weekend, which he did a couple days later - really nice text. But since then nothing! I sent a text on Thursday asking what his plans were for the weekend, and then this morning saying to let me know if he was around this weekend and what I was up to. (yeah I know i did the 2 texts in a row thing).
I have a horrible feeling he has done a runner, like he did before. And feel so foolish for having let myself be open to it again. Really upset actually.
Basically - why would he be so keen last weekend and send me the first text after the weekend, if he has done the runner now!?
Any thoughts on whats going through his head would be appreciated, as I don't think I will get any answers from him,
Thanks x