I'm not happy anymore?

[salena]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now and lately I'm just not happy anymore. He never wants to have sex and all we do is sit around and watch tv. I lie to him and go out with my friends cus he hates when I do but it's the only way I'm ever happy is to be away from him. I do love him and never want to lose him but I hate going to bed every night sad b/c he doesn't want to touch me or have sex with me! His a great boyfriend other than the fact that he doesn't wanna ever go out and he seems less interested in my feelings since we first started dating.

Is it worth losing him over?

[DarkHelmet82]

Hes a great boyfriend??? lets get this straight.

1. Doesnt spend quality time with you
2. From another post you said all he does is play video games and doesnt work
3. He gets angry that you have friends
4. You have to lie to him

This guy sounds like a "winner." And by winner I mean the guy who is 45 and living with his mother, who still makes his bed.

I dont see how you can consider him a "Great boyfriend."

Get out now before you are both living in a van down by the river.

[pwest131]

HAHA - dark. Funny, but RIGHT ON! move on.

[robFord]

When you have to lie to your other to be happy in a relationship, might as well end it before you get caught in a stupid lie over something that was unreasonable to begin with and cause more drama. Go have FUN. It takes courage to leave the safety of a relationship, but you'll be a better person for it.

[IncognitoSir]

So, have you talked to him about any of this? Or have you (from what it sounds like) been leading him to believe everything is A OK in the relationship?

[Horseyguy]

Am I the only one that thinks a van by the river sounds pretty cool?