I am in a new relationship, but am pretty sure I've found my soul-mate. This girl is amazing. She is a wonderful person, smart, and I get along with her better than any girl I've ever met. Sex is amazing. Everything is perfect expect for one thing. We had a casual conversation earlier in our relationship about sexual partners. I asked if the amount of people I slept with would matter to her. She said no, but we shared anyway. I said, equal to or less than 10. She said equal to or less than double that. This is driving me crazy. Were both tested and clean, but I've always held a standard for myself that I'd like my woman to respect her body and limit her amount of partners. I don't know exactly how many she's had, but I imagine it could be up to 20. I love this girl, but it's now starting to bug me. When I see her approached at a bar by a guy, I can't help think of this. When she talks about college or time abroad, its all i can think about. I trust her, and I'm crazy about her, but this little thing is on my mind too often. I am afraid to bring it up to her again because I don't want to make her feel bad about her past, nor do i want to lose her over this. I feel like at this point, its my problem that I need to get over, or not.
Is anyone in a similar situation? Am I being too old fashioned? Should I just man up and talk to her about it? Would that solve anything?
Any help would be great.
-Baker