I dated a girl 7 years ago for a couple months. We started talking and hanging out again this past February. We hooked up a few times in early-march. It didn't take long to realize though, that I didn't have more-than-friend feelings for her. Turns out she did like me more, but i told her it wasn't mutual. She was ok with it and we still hang out all the time, and she always brings her best friend with her. I feel such a strong connection with her friend, and it's just been building up more and more over the past couple months; I'm pretty sure she feels it too, but we've never discussed it.
I honestly can't remember the last time I had feelings like this for a girl, she really is perfect in every way, and I will regret it so bad if she ends up dating someone before I get to express my feelings. But I'm apprehensive about talking to her about it for many reasons.
It's pretty much girl code to not get involved with your best friends ex boyfriends. But my ex is currently considering getting back together with her other ex, so I'm thinking, if she does that, maybe THEN it will be ok to pursue her friend?
Any advice would be much appreciated.