Your parents want you to go to university, don't they? How many hours are they requiring you to work? They probably think that if you have time for girls, you have time for work.
In my opinion, at 18, your priorities should be 1) education, 2) family, 3) girlfriend. Your parents probably have the same priorities, because they understand that girlfriends at your age are transitory. They probably don't want you hanging out with her too much because girls are distracting, and sometimes end up pregnant.
You need to be highly organized at this time in your life, and you need to focus on your education. If you have to work, then I think you should cut back on your time with the girlfriend to maybe one night a week. If she doesn't understand how important it is that you get yourself in to a good school. she's stupid, and you should get rid of her. The rest of your time should be focused on work and school. There will be time for girls later.
Last edited by vashti; 14-04-11 at 02:13 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?