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    Should I try to ask her out?

    There's this girl I really like and I was wondering if I should try to ask her out. I'm pretty sure she's not dating anyone. I also consider her one of my best female friends. The only problem I currently see however is that in a little over a month, she will be graduating.

    I would also like to ask her to prom (approximately 1 month away). Would it be too late to ask? Once again, I'm not sure if she's going anyone. What would be the best way of approaching her about this?

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    Ask her if shes planning on going to prom with anyone and go from there. I would defiantly ask her to the dance before asking her to be your girl.

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    Being this close to prom, would it be too late to ask? I've never gone before so idk how these things work.

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    One month is plenty of time to prepare. Now is the time to ask her though before someone else does. The sooner the better so you can buy prom bids, the corsage, tux and give her time to get a dress. If she already has someone going with her then you'll still have time if you want to find another date.

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    The answer to "Should I ask her out?" is almost always yes. The answer you will get to asking someone out might not always be yes, but if you never ask, you will always be wondering and coming onto advice sites like this asking for help on ways to get over her.
    Ask her out. Ask her to prom. You can even say, "hey, I was thinking of going to prom. I think it would be cool if you were my date. What do you say?" or something more in line with the way kids talk today.

    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devonbrown View Post
    The answer to "Should I ask her out?" is almost always yes. The answer you will get to asking someone out might not always be yes, but if you never ask, you will always be wondering and coming onto advice sites like this asking for help on ways to get over her.
    Ask her out. Ask her to prom. You can even say, "hey, I was thinking of going to prom. I think it would be cool if you were my date. What do you say?" or something more in line with the way kids talk today.

    Good luck.
    I agree with this sentiment. But I would caution you from letting yourself get overly hopeful or idealistic for how the night will carry out because almost always that will just lead to disappointment. I asked a girl to prom when I was in senior and I had this picture of how the night was going to go and let's say it went quite the opposite, and I was mad with myself for letting me get overly zealous.

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    UPDATE: So I asked, and it sounded like she would have, but she already has a date (as I figured being this close to prom). Where should I go from here?

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    Ask another girl.
    Go by yourself and ask her date if its ok if you dance with her a few times.
    Stay at home.

    what do you feel like?

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    I had a feeling she already was going. I'm debating on whether to go or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by atlbravesfan321 View Post
    UPDATE: So I asked, and it sounded like she would have, but she already has a date (as I figured being this close to prom). Where should I go from here?
    Don't go to the prom. Stay home alone and masturbate a lot. Life is sometimes crap. Find another date and move on.

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    Would it be a bad idea to maybe ask her to the movies a bit later in the year?

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    You can give it a go, but if she says no to that then she's clearly not interested.

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