I'm 19, male and have never had a girlfriend. Since it's anoymous I might as well admit to a) being a virgin and b) I've NEVER kissed a girl before. So I guess that makes me sound like a loser :-/
I'm not socially awkward, I'd say I'm fairly good looking at the moment as I'm trying to improve my image by getting fitter, have braces so making my teeth straighter, hair looks good at the moment and I feel good mentally too. I have unlimited confidence when I meet and know a girl, I can never make the first move to talk to a girl though that I don't know, I'm shy but once I even know someone after a few words I don't have any nervousness or anxiety and 'I can be myself'.
Anyway there have been two girls I've been interested in the last few months. Both very good looking with personalities to match it. The first girl is one I know from work, now I've always thought she was attractive but I didn't talk to her for 2 years until I had a shift with her in the same department :p Anyway In February I asked for her number, and once I got over sickness of 3 weeks asked her out which she agreed to but she was busy the next week so I didn't pressure her or anything and I asked her out just to a coffee two weeks after that but she never committed and twice said 'I'll see what I'm doing' and get back to you. (First time I asked for coffee was on the phone then I bumped into her two days later at work, I wasn't specifically there to see her by the way). So I gave up on that girl.
Second Girl was one I met in a club in December who gave me her number, she added me on facebook before I woke up the next morning and I think she was playing a few games with me which I suck at. She rang me on the Saturday Morning in Dec and hung up when I answered but I texted back, I don't know why I didn't ring back but I'm stupid at times. I tried calling her a couple of times but it went to voicemail so I gave that up, until a few weeks ago after the first girl was not an option anymore. I texted her and she replied back but I stuffed that up by saying 'It wasn't for her' because I didn't want to seem like a creep for contacting her MONTHS after I last saw her, I still asked how she was in the text and everything but I didn't get a reply back. A few days ago she liked my most recent photo on facebook so I decided might as well try once more so last night I texted her asking how she was, but she never texted back. Calling is pointless because literally everytime I've called it's went to voicemail, even when a couple of my mates took my phone and tried calling her a couple months back it went to voicemail. So it looks like I've stuffed up with this girl as well
The worst thing is my lack of experience seems to have gone against me with these two girls, both seemed to have some interest in me with the way they were acting because it wasn't like a girl I was friends with or acting like a girl I know, it was different but even worse than that is my mind has set these two girls as perfect or a benchmark because they were very good looking and attractive so it's going to be hard for me to find a close match to them two (in my mind) for a while. I know I can lower my standards but I feel if I almost got these two girls, I should stay looking up and not fall down.
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