How many people have you had sex with?

[Rhea]

I don't know whether to tell my new bf how many, should i tell him the truth?

[VincenzoG91]

He doesn't need to know, and some guys can't handle that information due to massive insecurity.

I've had sex with roughly 30 women. That sounds like a lot, but it's roughly an average of one per year since I started having sex. The exact count is wobbly because I can't remember a few of the names of the one-night stands. Or even their faces.

[girl68]

You should NOT tell.

[doppelgaenger]

Avoid this topic at all costs. It always causes trouble, and it's nobody's business anyway. Have respect for each other's privacy.

[warriormaiden]

Unless it's over ten, I would tell him. I always tell my prospective guys how many men I've been with. Never met any negativity about it yet.

[broken man]

Unless it's over ten, I would tell him. I always tell my prospective guys how many men I've been with. Never met any negativity about it yet.

how many men have you slept with then ? i honestly have no idea about me.....probaly 60 but it might be higher it might be lower, i dont know and tbh i dont care........i am not intrested in a new girlfriends sexual past as its pointless and its just that...in the past.

[Boisdevie]

If he asks you then he's insecure. He obviously can't handle the fact that you have done 'the business' with others before he came along. I'm an old fart of 47 and don't care what my GF did before I arrived because that's ancient history. All I know is that she loves ME now. And surely that's all that matters?

[broken man]

If he asks you then he's insecure. He obviously can't handle the fact that you have done 'the business' with others before he came along. I'm an old fart of 47 and don't care what my GF did before I arrived because that's ancient history. All I know is that she loves ME now. And surely that's all that matters?

i am 43...........and i think as you get older its much less important or not important at all after all we all live life dont we and having sex is perfectly natural.

[chirping]

it's the past. it shouldn't matter.
he should respect your privacy and you should respect his.
as long as those past has no lasting effect to your present, then it should stay there.... in the past.

[lostnconfused22]

I am 21 and have slept with about 23 men. I am not a slut I have never caught any diseases. I am always faithfull in a relationship.

[VincenzoG91]

I am 21 and have slept with about 23 men. I am not a slut I have never caught any diseases. I am always faithfull in a relationship.

That's a lot of short-term relationships.

[lostnconfused22]

I was young, single, travelling and having fun. Whats wrong with that? I am always very loyal once I have feelings for someone or in a relationship.

[bloodtippedrose]

I am 22 and have slept with 5 men. 3 during long term relationships and the other two were just casual during my single periods. I don't think its a big deal to talk about and I always want to know before I get in a relationship with someone. I think it says a lot about a person....

[DoesntMatter]

I am 22 and have slept with 5 men. 3 during long term relationships and the other two were just casual during my single periods. I don't think its a big deal to talk about and I always want to know before I get in a relationship with someone. I think it says a lot about a person....

It's not a big deal for you cause you ain't a whore

[Bo]

For being 21 that's a lot. I'm just turning 21 in a few months and i'm not even near half that number.