Okay there was a guy who studied in the same high school with me, he liked me more than friends since 6,7 years ago. And I never liked/ like him more than friends, he's not ugly, but the fact is I can't imagine myself kissing him, I feel sick to think of that. It came to the point that he stalked me and made me said something harsh like I wouldn't love you even if there are no men left in this world. Harsh enough?
Down to 3 years ago till I had bf, he seemed keep his hopes still and yea sometimes made comments like your relationship won't work out, or told that my ex bf looked way too old n ugly, ok, annoy enough- my ex was not old n ugly, he was cute for me, and he was 7 years older, not that much that The Guy called Older a lot, I was So annoy with his comments, like tried to drift me n my ex apart, only made me felt sick of him. He saw pics coz we were friends on Fb for a short while till I deleted him.
Till I broke up 5 months ago, he would ask me for coffee once in a while, then oh yea kept talking bad aboit my ex, I tried to made fun of it but I really felt None of your business he's a lot better than you, and you are not my bf to stick your nose too much on who I love, my choice. He would try to convince me that My age is getting old? WTF I'm 25 turning 26 in July, and that men don't worry about the age of married but women do, oh yea in this society in Asia you better get married at my age or ppl will ask you all the time. And that it's the best that I love someone who's close to me( I think he was talking it's him), I really got out of the patience. I was so straight n honest that I only want friendship right at the start. He's making me feel sick to meet him n even talk to him, I didn't show any interest in him n even treated him quite badly lately but he doesn't care, when he phoned I asked why did u call n rejected his inviting for coffee. He's a longest stalker and it turns me to Hate him badly now, I feel he was trying to make me feel insecure and accept him instead of looking else where which is ridiculous. My friend said that this guy is crazy to be that patient to someone never showed interest to him.
And yea he tried to convince that my ex was a fake guy, oh yea? I only wanted to told him that my ex was not fake but more of yourself is a sicko.
Can you tell me the best way to get rid of this guy? I don't want to be friends with him more, I want to phone him up and say something to make him give up forever, but in a polite way coz I don't want to hurt him, coz I really don't want to be friends with him more, and wouldn't want him contact me anymore n try to find a gf for himself.