Hey, my name is Nikand ive been recently dumped. We have together for over 4 years. We were very young when we met. i am 22 and she is 19. I was 17 and she was 15 when we met. We both fell deeply in love and thought of no one else. this past year is her second year of college. she is in a sorority. i was being very insecure this past semester because she was not inviting me to her parties and did not want me around. we started to argue much more because of it and i became more jealous. this lead to some problems but ultimately we were ok...well i thought. we've also had many good times together this semester also and i can count well over 15 memorable times just these past couple months. But out of the blue she tells me she needs time to think about us. She happened to then 2 days later come over and break up with me in person. she told me she was not happy and she does not know why. She needed to live her life and she did want to hurt me anymore. (she was treating me pretty badly which we did fight a bit about and she would realize she is wrong) she said as long as she is in school we cant be together. she also said that there could be something between us in a couple years. i put my all into this relationship and i told her that she didn't and she says "i never said i did" so pls tell what of us. and any possible way to get her back. I love her so much and she said she loved me with all her heart...then why is she going through this, and is there any chance she will come back to me soon. its been over a week now and she has not contacted me once, nor have i contacted her and dont plan to. but i really really want this girl and she means so much to me. do you think she will change her mind and realize what shes missing? anytime soon? plz help
thanks a lot