Love thy neighbor! Advice needed!

[juniorkicks]

Hello all, first post

Ha, anyways... So i moved into a new apartment about 8 months ago and for the past 2 months or so I've begun to take notice of this really cute girl who happens to live in the same apartment complex. (but different building)
I would like to add that this apartment complex is made up of many different buildings, so yeah, it's a pretty big place. More like a community I guess.
But I ran into this girl twice in the laundry room, nothing but small talk, but I strongly believe that she is the ideal girl for me. She is exactly who i've been searching for this whole time.
The ONLY downside is that I'm afraid of things either moving too fast or getting too awkward if I ask her out because we live so close together. I can actually see her apartment from just being in my living room. If I look out my sliding glass door I can see her car and can tell if she's home, etc.. It's just weird.

Any thoughts? Should I go ahead and ask her out next time or should I avoid this potential mess altogether?

[devonbrown]

Living in the same complex is not that big of a deal. What is a bigger deal is that you have made small talk with her twice while doing laundry and you think she is the girl of your dreams? That is a little frightening. And she would probably think it is a little crazy.
You don't want to come across as stalkerish, so just chill out a bit with her. If you happen to run into her again, during the course of your small talk, ask her if she wants to go get coffee or something. But don't make too big of a deal out of it. And definitely don't be upset if she says no. You are just a guy who lives close to her right now. She doesn't know you at all.

Good luck.

[juniorkicks]

ha thanks man. I guess I should have worded that different. She's just someone I could eventually see myself dating. (not necessary "the one") at least not that I know of yet... But thanks man!