Relationship Dynamics

[LoveIsALie]

Okay kids, I know you are broken up inside and in tears right now, but listen up closely. This is the simplest guide for what you did wrong with your relationship and why it broke up.

For men:
What you should not do: You are too needy, want her all to yourself all the time, get jealous at the dumbest things, you need to stop basing your whole life around her.
What you should do: Be more assertive, find hobbies for yourself that doesn't include her, let her have her space.

For women:
What you should not do: Get too needy, become physically unattractive (gaining weight), withholding sex
What you should do: Give him sex and lots of it, that way he won't need to go to another woman for it. Unless she's more attractive than you, then he might go regardless.

[smackie9]

I have an easier solution. The placement of fear. Let the other person know that you will have no problem walking away. Simple.

[smackie9]

As for giving a guy unlimited sex...the lack of sex is not the reason why guys cheat.....it's BOREDOM!

Giving a guy a lot of sex doesn't keep a guy...you are right about if something better comes along....so your theory is out the window.

[DarkHelmet82]

i dont agree with your post...

the sex thing is just dumb... i wouldnt cheat on my girlfriend because we werent sleeping all the time.. simple reason: its just not a nice thing to do and i dont believe in cheating

also hanging out all the time is not a bad thing if you both enjoy the time together.

[smackie9]

i dont agree with your post...

the sex thing is just dumb... i wouldnt cheat on my girlfriend because we werent sleeping all the time.. simple reason: its just not a nice thing to do and i dont believe in cheating

also hanging out all the time is not a bad thing if you both enjoy the time together.

I agree.....it's compatibility that holds a relationship together for the long haul.....having interests in common or being able to share the same passions.

[LoveIsALie]

Bull, the only thing a man aspires to is to have sex with as many attractive women as possible. When he thinks he's found the most attractive woman that he's ever going to be able to get, then that's when he'll go for the long haul. Common interests and passions are secondary. This is why there is porn, and you look at hot chicks when you're out. You are constantly weighing decisions in your unconscious mind: if I break up with my girlfriend now to try and get this new one, would the benefit outweigh the costs?

If the benefits does, then proceed. You are only deluding yourself by citing "compatibility, interests, and passion", these basically mean how long can I screw this chick before I find a better one.

I do agree that it's not only sex, it's also other stuff too: cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, giving me oral sex, cooking the food, etc.

[Lifetime]

While there are guys like the ones you describe, and they are actually probably the majority these days, we aren't all like that. That being said, you're obviously here to try to get on peoples nerves and get them to argue with you. I think they call it "trolling"?