Hello everyone! I joined because I wanted some advice, this is driving me crazy and I dont know what to do.
I really like this girl I've known for a little over six months. I was told by her friends that during the first months we met, she had a crush on me. I didn't, however, and never even noticed.
Now, it's the other way around. I'm crazy for her. I don't know if she still feels something for me... probably not. Like 4 months into our relationship as friends (at this time I already liked her), she told me about this guy she liked (I guess she did because I wasn't showing any interest). I was shattered. I knew that was it. So I just ignored her and stuff. Then I started talking to her again, because, to be honest, I was having some hope. I indirectly asked how love was going and she told me there wasn't anyone she liked or anything. Then I asked her about that guy she had a crush on (which was probabably a mistake) and she told me she wasn't interested in him anymore, and that she was just looking for someone. We started texting and chatting on facebook a lot and she has never mentioned a guy again. She only mentions to me these guys that stalk her and stuff and tells me how she hates them. She always asks me what to do, I always tell her to ignore them obviously lol.
Then, the other day, on a thursday, I asked her is she wanted to hang out on Friday. I knew I was probably gonna fail since she had probably made plans already. She told me no... and her reason was because she was going out with her friends already. I was like, alright then . I had given up again. I was thinking she probably just made an excuse up. I still think that to this day. But then I got on on facebook and she was way more chatty than before and our conversations were much nicer. We started texting alot too, even at night, like before, but this time conversations were kinda different. Nothing more than friends, though, which sucks.
I THINK I might have a chance with her, considering she liked me at some point and since we have so many things in common and get along great. But there's also the negative side. She might just consider me her friend by now and nothing more. I don't really know.
So, what I want to do is ask her out again so I can confess my feelings to her. I want it to be in person, since confessing to her over facebook seems lame. And we're on a week break right now, so it sounds like the appropiate moment.
I don't know how to ask her out now though... Since she already said no when I asked before, I think I might try asking her in a different way. I was thinking of this: "hey, there's something I want to tell you, but It has to be in real life. Do you have free time this week?"
What do you think, would that work? Should I do it this way? Or just straight tell her: "hey, since last time we couldn't hang out, I was thinking maybe you have time now? I'd love it if we could get some time to talk"
What do you think?
Thanks