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    hjow bad is it really?

    For a woman to call or text first after sex...

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    I don't know? If it's in a loving relationship should it matter?

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    I don't see how that would be bad at all. It just means she's into you.

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    Like, right after? To you? To someone else?

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    It might mean that she's into you. You decide if that's bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    Like, right after? To you? To someone else?
    it would be funny if she texted him while laying right next to him.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    it would be funny if she texted him while laying right next to him.
    It would be horrible if she texted him while laying next to someone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    it would be funny if she texted him while laying right next to him.
    LOL. That would be nerd love Better still, she said it Morse Code.

    Seriously though, no big deal that she texted first or whatever. My gf wrote complimentary post-coital messages. Granted, she's a loony sex maniac....but, at least she's nice

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    It means she wants to have sex again. Or if you're asking as a girl who texted the guy because he didnt text u after it happened.. well if you're really into him its not a good sign. Depends how long after u did it that u wouldve texted him. It depends on the situation and any other girls in the picture, and who initiated the sex as well.
    Last edited by cheeky&sexy; 29-04-11 at 12:19 AM.

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    i aggree on it depends on who initiated the sex part.. if it came from the girl too, means the guy is feeling awkward and uneasy.. not good.

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    its not bad. its actually a good thing

    if a girl calls/text after sex. It means that the girl is sexually satisfied with the guy she had sex with. so she wants more. I assume
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    Quote Originally Posted by xinn1314 View Post
    i aggree on it depends on who initiated the sex part.. if it came from the girl too, means the guy is feeling awkward and uneasy.. not good.
    Interesting that u say that cos i was actually thinking the opposite when i said it depends who initiated. What you're saying does make sense too though. But i was thinking that if a guy initiated and didnt text or call after, as a girl id feel used. But if i initiated and they didnt contact me first i wouldnt really feel that way.

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    Like people said, it really depends. If 2 weeks gone by already don't do it. If he wanted to talk to you he would have done so already. But if it's just the next day, just send a short sentence or two. Don't be texting a lot unless he sent you a long message or calls you. For instance if you send "I had a great time ;-*" and he reply's with just a, "yeah." stop till he gets a hold of you next time and not just for "hey, are you free? I'm horny" because then you're just a booty-call but I don't think I have to tell you that. It's just common sense.

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