In such distress and hurt. Please help.

[Tricia2710]

This is the last text he sent me:

Any advice on what it means?

"I think you should just be cool, and be relaxed. Don't be too agressive. That will create the best environment for the end result your looking for"

[DarkHelmet82]

whats he referring too

[Tricia2710]

Him and I getting back together..

[Tricia2710]

He advised me that after everything that happened with the things I did, and the things he did, he has been upset about it all. He is afraid I will hurt him the way I did before, so hes a bit guarded.

Yet we are still somewhat seeing each other, and we are still going on our vacation as planned. When we are together, we act somewhat like we are still together.

So I said, that maybe we should give us another try, and thats when he texted me that.

[DarkHelmet82]

well he means just that then... guys tend to say things as they are....dont overanalyze it

[Tricia2710]

Right. I guess I just don't get the last part. "That will create the best environment for the end result your looking for" What does that mean?

[DarkHelmet82]

it means if you want a relationship with him... do what he asks and there wont be problems