There are many vids about how to deal with break ups. Some are lousy, some are really good.
The ones I liked:
A bubbly Kandee, it helped me and I like her. The first week I watched this almost every day.
[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrEHoKQOIa4]YouTube - Break-Up Bootcamp: how to survive (live through) a break-up[/url]
a 31 day approach:
[url=http://www.yourtango.com/proconnect/201167604/lose-baggage-how-get-over-past-relationships]Lose The Baggage! How To Get Over Past Relationships [VIDEO] | YourTango[/url]
It is a set of videos
This guy is pretty good
[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBoZiIS3eAw]YouTube - Relationship Breakup-How To Not Go Crazy[/url]
This guy is also cool:
[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxaXmNovgGs&NR=1[/url]