Well, just getting past the first 15 minutes is the hardest part; after that, your dick begins to lose sensation. I think about other things. I think about what I am doing with her, or I look up at the crucifix above my bed if I'm doing her doggie style, or I think about how the relationship will end. Different positions help keep it exciting enough that I don't lose an erection. I look at h!er body and that's a turn-on to keep it going.
Key thing is not listed to all things she's saying, like "You make me cum! You make me cum!" or "I really love your cock!" She wants me cum so she's going to try to get me into that fantasy-world of hers. Key is don't believe it, keep a serious face, do your things...kiss her, caress her body, but don't forget that this relationship is likely to fall apart...keep that in mind and it balances out the good thoughts.
Be Stoic about things--Seneca reminds us that sex is just the rubbing together of parts until ejaculation. Makes it sound kind of stupid, doesn't it? It is kind of silly, except for the procreation part.
cam you could make money as a porn star or a prostitute. no, i'm serious.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
There are health benefits, sure. I agree. I enjoy the adominal muscle workout--also, does wonders for the glutes. Until the current gf, it wasn't a form of stress reduction. This time, I think it fulfill that purpose. I think that for most people, it is a bonding experience. I am pretty Stoic, though. The source of happiness (and hurt) are from within our own rational being; not from external sources...being realistic aboiut things is important to me. Anyway, that's how I keep myself going for those hours
This thread is fcuked up. and by fcuked up i mean the posts by CAM.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
What freaky insights I have asked for.
Thanks for sharing though.. It sorta broadens my perspective LOL
I'm an eccentric, yes. Someone asked a question and chipped in my two cents worth. I don't make stuff up--just responding to a thread. It isn't ****ed up to have self-control. I was asked how that is possible and I provided an honest answer. Keep in mind that I'm a mildly depressed personality and I believe the best parts of my life are behind me; I'm a dystopian; and, I'm basically a loner.
That doesn't preclude you from doing the same. I'm not judging you, so please don't judge me.
Someone is playing online mindgames... LOL.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Next time I'm doing my girlfriend doggy style I'll be sure to keep a "serious face" while looking at the cucifix above my bed and repeating to myself "this relationship is going to end, this relationship is going to end".
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
He said sometimes when you're young you have to think about things, because you're forming your value-sets and you keep coming up with Data Insufficient and finding holes in your programs. So you keep trying to do a fix on your sets. And the more powerful your mind is and the more intense your concentration is, the worse damage you can do to yourself, which is why, Justin says, Alphas always have trouble and some of them go way off and out-there, and why almost all Alphas are eccentric. But he says the best thing you can do if you're too bright for your own good is what the Testers do, be aware where you got which idea, keep a tab on everything, know how your ideas link up with each other and with your deep-sets and value-sets, so when you're forty or fifty or a hundred forty and you find something that doesn't work, you can still find all the threads and pull them.
But that's not real easy unless you know what your value-sets are, and most CITs don't. CITs have a trouble with not wanting to know that kind of thing. Because some of them are real eetee once you get to thinking about how they link. Especially about sex and ego-nets.
Justin says inflexibility is a trap and most Alpha types are inward-turned because they process so fast they're gone and thinking before a Gamma gets a sentence out. Then they get in the habit of thinking they thought of everything, but they don't remember everything stems from input. You may have a new idea, but it stems from input somebody gave you, and that could be wrong or your senses could have been lying to you. He says it can be an equipment-quality problem or a program-quality problem, but once an Alpha takes a falsehood for true, it's a personal problem.
from one of my favourite authors and fiction books:
Cyteen by CJ Cherryh
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Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Doggy style puts me over the edge so quickly.
That, and when she lays on her side with her legs closed, it's like a tilted doggy style.
I could be on a roll for 20 minutes, but that's instant splooge for me.