Best way to handle these certain things ...

[Love1234]

Whoever reads this will love this, it's the most complex thing I've had so far lol! Bear in mind I'm 19 and she is 20. Apologies if this sounds at all ridiculous lol.

Right so I went out with Sarah's sister about a year and a half / two years ago, and this is how I met Sarah. Now I liked Sarah even when I was with her sister, but we where both with someone at the time so I would of been wasting my time. Forward to now she has recently got out of her four year relationship and has told me that she really likes me, and I still really like her, so we where talking about things, and we've grown even closer. Then we got alone and she made a move on me, which led to us kissing. So as far as me and her go I think we are very good together.

Now for the complications, she did say to me that being with someone else and having that physical contact was helping her get through the break up, so is she just using me for now or is it as simple as she likes me? I guess this only sticks in my mind because she isn't overly open with feelings. I have started to dismiss this thought though as she had thought she'd upset me the other day, meaning I got loads of texts from her so that made me think she was worried about me not liking her?

She also still lives with her ex as he cant afford to move out, but he knows I've liked her for a long time, and as far as I can read it, he is trying to be protective of her, but then again, my basic insight into body language tells me he is insecure around me, I guess he does want her back but knows I could get with Sarah and ruin that. So as well as this we obviously get little time alone.

Essentially, I've never dealt with anything like this, relationship's have always been much easier! My view on it, and hers I think, is that for now we'd love to have a bit of fun until she is ready for another relationship. So I guess that is how it is going to be? ()

[Dune]

Yup.. So if you plan on trying anything, I'd suggest not emotionally investing too much into this.

It's a rebound, as clear as day. You'd probably like to hope against hope that it will work out. Some rebounds do honestly turn into full-fledged relationships, but only very few. Most of the cases, they are what they are.. A REBOUND. That said, once she's done healing, she may realize that she's actually not into you.