My name is fred. We're friends at work. She's shown some friendly interest, but nothing really romantic. She hates action movies, so when some mutual friends went to the movie theatre last night, I assumed she wouldn't be coming. When I got to the movie theatre, I got this text from her:
Her: Fred fred fred fred... did you have dinner already? Hahahah.
Me: I'm actually at the movie theatre right now waiting to go see suckerpunch
Her: Ohhhh. Hahaha. I should have guess it. I thought since everyone else was out watching it that I'd ask you if you wanted to grab something to eat because I'm starving and not interested in sitting alone eating. So in that case I'll stay put and take a nap bc I'm also super sleepy. Have a good night!
Me: Aww.. Too bad. I would have liked that. Maybe some other time!
Her: Sure. Enjoy the movie.
Was she asking me out and then backpedalled, or was this just a harmless one-time asking to eat dinner together?
Should I ask her out now? If she was interested, I don't want to look like i'm disinterested. But if she's not interested, I don't want to look like I am trying to get a date out of it. Thoughts?