Hello guys,
I would appreciate your views on this relationship.
I met my new girlfriend in jan 2011 and the 3 and half months have been great. she has many friends a lot more than me and is very sociable. I'm sociable too, but don't go out as much as she does. Shes also 19 and Im 27. she is mature for her age.
Well, as I was saying the first 3 and half months, have been great. we spent every day together. her best friend even said she never got to see her. but my gf would come round every night and we would cuddle and watch dvd.
we have been on a few holiday and recently went on a holiday to the lake district. everything was fine, but since we came back..she has been more distance. she says she still loves me. but all of a sudden shes busy and does not wanna come round, or I should say cannot come round becouse shes busy. but it seem strange becouse she would come round every night before.
Anyway, It just feels really weird the relationship now. we hardly see each other. shes is now going out a lot more with her friends and is seeying her bestest friend a lot more again. now my gf and her best friend are planning a holiday to ibiza...I have to be honest this made me a bit worried, cause that place is mainly for people who wanna get sex and drinking a lot.
But basicaly she just seems a lot different recently. we did have an argument. becouse I felt like giving the relationship up. my gf said, I have to learn to share her and that she has friends and is still a teenager. she said she still wants everything we planned together..but needs her space sometimes. thats fair enought....but honestly things feel different.?? I have no problem with her seeying her friends. I do have friends too..but she just seems to not wanna fit me in much theses days..Im so confused. I love her so much. when she comes home from going out, she will always text me and say she loves me and shes going to bed and so on...
where do you think I stand? is this normal of a relationship. Ive not had many relationship..but she even said we would go on a holiday this year..but now she wants to go on a holiday with her best friend?
I love her so much..but something does not feel right? is it me. I'm I controlling? why does she want to go to ibiza? what should I do? why does she not want to come round as much? I'm I boring her? she said I was not boring, but that we was both different people and like different stuff.
excuse my bad typing.
thanks and I look forward to your reply.