It has been 2 days for me. (wow seems like weeks). although she contacted me first.. the day after breaking up..
It has been 2 days for me. (wow seems like weeks). although she contacted me first.. the day after breaking up..
Last edited by DarkHelmet82; 12-05-11 at 07:40 AM.
Haven't talked for one day, I contacted her.
12 hours for me
10 minutes ago. We're getting together for dinner after work. She wants to get back together with me, but we're postponing any major discussion until after final exams are over this week.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
how long did you have NC before that?
She left three weeks ago, she has always contacted me first asking how I am I hear from here pretty much everyday but the conversations are short. Do you thing she still cares?
Mine was 2 months ago and half a year before that. Cheerio :o)
2 months, I contacted him to get closure and agree to be friends...now it's been 2 long weeks and counting since the last encounter. We had a deep mutual connection, how long does it take to get over someone like that?
The short answer is never, as you will see on this forum, most people pretty much never got over one of their ex's, for me he was my first love. Thought it was over and had been for 13 yrs, now we are talking again as friends and i have resorted to letting him use me...good luck!
The last time i contacted him was saturday. The day i found out he cheated on me. Since then, he text me yesterday asking if i still hated him. And i said a quick 'nah'. And he said 'okay'.
Nothing since then, i am so proud for going NC. It definitely is out of sight, out of mind.
Last time we had contact was five months ago. Last time I tried to email him was three months ago.
annnnnd.... he posts on this forum every so often and sometimes I'll reply to those... last one was about a month ago.
Meh.
Ted, how do I explain this to you. Last night, I ate the best cake of my life. Do you think I'm gonna let that cake out of my life? Hell no. I'm gonna find out what bakery made that cake and I'm gonna get some more cake.
5 years in September, the day we broke up.
It really helped.
Last night, she texted me thinking that I had tried to call her. (which I hadn't)
Going to collect my stuff on Saturday from hers, I'll go NC after that
Yeah. Dinner together was nice, but I'm keeping my emotions on hold until we can talk seriously this weekend. If I'm not satisfied by what she has to say, I'm really okay with just moving on now. I've got a feeling that the only real issue left will be timing, now or end of summer.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.