I think it probably has more to do with the forcing open of the anal sphincter. I didn't post a medical link, but I can tell you that my friend in ER told me a lot of her rectal prolapse patients are homosexual men. I have read conflicting info, though, which is why I said the jury is out.
The higher rate of anal cancer is true though - not because of anal sex, but because of having anal sex with a male carrying HPV (similar in numbers to the men carrying herpes).
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
why are pussy and asshole so close to each other??? some times a guy might do the wrong hole by accident
Consider that homosexual men will probably engage in anal sex more frequently than any other demographic. Also consider there are gay men that receive more frequently than others.
I see a lot of women quote this pseudo science bullshit, and spread lies because they themselves don't like anal sex.
I've read from multiple sources that one of the causes of prolapse in women can be the labor involved in delivering a baby. Now ain't that some shit.
What's wrong with not liking it, tho? Especially when there is a perfectly good first option right next door. If tightness is the issue, do exercises to strengthen vaginal muscles.
Anyway, this thread is funny.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
There's nothing wrong with not liking it. I think the protest is that people that don't like it are spreading unsubstantiated rumors as fact, BECAUSE they don't like it.
She shouldnt feel pressured to do anything. Would u want a cock up yours?? And honestly, how do u know all ur friends girlfriends are into it, did the gf's actually tell u? If they did, get rid of ur bird and go with one of those! A lot of girls do anal cos they feel they should, not because they want to x
I have seen women online talking about how they orgasm easily via anal sex, but it's different with other women. It varies a lot. Some like it, some don't. But you have to do it right. You are not churning butter here.
"Wait...is that corn?"
I've taken much wider dumps than any cock I've seen online, ever. Yeah it hurt, but everything healed up ok.
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I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
(Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)
Start off slow. Dip your baby finger in her natural lubrication and just play with her button at first while at the same time working her clit. Don't go in her anus past the first knuckle of your pinky finger if you go in at all. There are lots of nerve endings around the anus and if you can get her enjoying that sensation then gradually upgrade to a bigger finger until she's accepting of that then, if you're good at it (play softly) and she learns to trust you, perhaps you'll have shot at full penile penetration. You need LOTS of store bought lube to do that and you also need to go slow.
Stop whining to her about it though. Stop pressuring her as well. Just try it one step at a time and any time she says "stop" you stop without question.
Never, ever go from the anus to the vagina, during finger play or penetration, you will cause her to get a bad infection that way. Always wear a rubber (and lots of lube) when doing anal and change your condum if you're going back to the vagina.
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“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Okay, guys. That is a discription of WHAT NOT TO DO when you are attempting to introducer anal into your love making/sex sessions. Start easy by using your baby finger and just playing around with the anus itself without going into the anal canal. Thrusting your junk in there without introducing the intense feelings of pleasure around the anus is just asking for a reaction that the above poster describes. Using The "If you love me" card is just as gag worthy as that dudes technique.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
How old is she? I know when I was younger I despised the idea of anal and would never of thought of trying it. I am now 34 and older and wiser and have tried it. I am not over the moon for it but I have done it. It is something that needs to be approached slowly with your girlfriend (just like the act itself lmao). They have anal lube that numbs the area and starting with your fingers is best. If this is a huge fantasy and its important to you make sure she knows it.. but if she feels pushed you might find she wont wanna try it. One bad experience in this "area" can ruin it for you forever.