My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. After about 3 months of no contact intiated by me we started talking again. He has a new gf now whose quite a bit younger than us. I realize now that he can't give me the type of relationship I want. But I'm still very attracted to him and he was my first love. We were bbming today about our future careers after we're done school...we've been talking about that a lot recently over bbm. Then he said "we should meet up and catch up..or no?". I said "umm...I don't mind, but I don't want your gf to be mad...I hope you two work out". And he said "shutup you weirdo". Then I said "anyway, its upto you, I have to get back to work", and he said "What are you working on?". I told him, and he said good luck and we stopped talking.
Anyway, is it a bad idea to meet up with an ex if you're still attracted to them, but don't want them in any other way? Was I stupid for saying "I hope your gf doesn't get mad??" I think he just wanted to meet as friends, and he found it really weird i brought up his gf. I feel so stupid now for saying that!!! I think he has zero feelings for me, and just wants to catch up to talk about future career options. We dated for like 10 months, but I somehow feel he never had THAT strong of feelings for me. And here I was saying, your gf might get mad if we meet....assuming that any of those 10 months meant anything to him. I feel like in his head, we never really even dated.
What is going on here and what should I do??