she graduates today... this is going to be really hard... today is day 5 though.
she graduates today... this is going to be really hard... today is day 5 though.
tonight and it didn't go well for her
day 6.. she graduated yesterday and I didnt contact her...
She emailed me a couple of days ago to arrange my next visit with my son. I'll answer her in a few days.
yeah she is manipulative. it took me so long to realize that because i was hurting so much about losing my father but im glad i could finally get stronger again and realize i need to pull myself out of that.
I think your ex#2 and my ex are both in the mental case boat.....
it was rough. i was friends with her before we dated and had no idea she has it. im a graduate student in a psychology program too for god sakes! arggh, i just think i couldnt see it because she is a high-functioning bpd. i never got over losing the girl i was in love with before she and i started dating so at least i never loved her; but, i thought we could work towards that since we had been good friends. i found out just how cold and messed up and self absorbed she really is. i think its because bpd girls always have to play the role of the victim and when they get into a relationship with you, you have to be the rescuer. 2 people cant be the victim, so when my dad started to pass away, i feel like she thats when the problems got worse.
im going to feel so sorry for whoever her next victim is. no contact now for about a week and im ready to keep it rolling on. the last words i said to her were "goodbye please". never contacted me after that. that was something my dad and stepmom said to the family pets when they were annoying them. haha
i sent her a "congratulations on your graduation text today" She responded with "thank you!". I guess time for no contact again.. this sucks
^^^ maybe you should stop wasting your time on that?
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
im not a negative person and I try to remain positive.. I am also not a jerk.. I am genually happy for her.. so in my opinion it wasnt a "Waste of time." I was just hoping for a different response thats all.
its been 21 days for me
I feel like I haven't been on this site forever and I'm honestly surprised Dark that you are STILL on about your ex. I don't mean this in a mean way but it's really sad. I wish you could just cut the cord and move on. Unless this is a different ex than the one you've been talking about for...god how long has it been? I want to say a year, that's what it feels like. Maybe you should find a hobby or something besides her and this site because I think this site is actually making it harder for you to not think about her since it's all about relationships here.