I need to make it up , need female advice.

[Rabbitt]

I'll cut it short , i've made a horrible mistake , a selfish one that broke a girl's trust in me immensely.

She told me to not do something and I did without her knowing it and she ofcourse is pissed off.



I need to make it up to her in the best way , leaving a door open to get back our romance wether this happens fast or not I dont really care most important though is that I get our friendship back.



I was thinking of sending her a white rose with a card saying: I want you to know that I will always be around if you need me. Love {My name} or : You don't see a white rose that often and I don't see girls like you that often either, I praise myself lucky to have been at your side for 5 years.



What do you think? I was her best friend for 5 years, so what if your best friend did something to break your trust wether or not you lied about the subject you dont trust him anymore,,,, what would make you forgive him ?


Also I dont want it to be too pushy, i think i've been pushy enough ..


Thoughts ? tips ? advice?

[LisaV]

Hey. I believe it depends on that thing you did behind her back. Speaking as girl who takes her time trusting people... a friend/lover betrayal is like stabbing you in the back, it can make you feel miserable and questioning every single moment of your relationship "was he really my friend? did he really like me?" . But also, good friends are for life, and it's not one little mistake that is going to ruin years of strong relationship (if it is, relationship wasn't that strong after all..)
You just have to show her, not tell her, SHOW her, how sorry you are, and how much you value her. Hopefully, she'll give you another chance
I hope this helps

[LisaV]

heyyy! I'm sorry, I've only seen your PM now, I don't know if you still need my opinion.. and I couldn't answer by Pm cuz I'm a new user and have few posts...

Anyway, you asked me what you should write on the card.. Well, that's very personal and it depends on the kind of girl she is. If she's fond of reading, you could insert a quotation of one of her favourite writers/books and add some words of your own. If she's a music lover, you could do the same with lyrics. If none of this applies, give wings to your imagination and pour your heart out. It doesn't have to be poetic, sincerity and love will be just enough

I hope this helps, write me if you need anything else! ;D

[DarkHelmet82]

just buy her flowers

[Cerby]

just buy her flowers

Flowers does freaking wonders.

[Rabbitt]

Didnt do wonders for me it's been two days since the flowers got delivered I sent 3 red roses with a thoughfull card even texted the next day that I was really sorry and I believed her.. but nothing..

Think it's really game over for me.