take a "break" kinda

[dani53]

So my boyfriend of 7 months wants to take a "break" we are still together but I moved all my stuff home and am now staying at my house. He told me that we will still go out sometimes and date like we did when we first started dating. The reason for the time appart is because he is very stressed out about money and he is scared about how fast our relationship moved. However, our relationship is really good we NEVER fight or anything like that. I knew he hasnt been happy with his current money situation but who really is with the economy lately. but I was totally blindsided by this and have been pretty up set. This relationship has been different than anyone I have ever been in and by far better than any previous one. Is it normal for this kinda of thing to happen? Thanks...

[Dune]

He probably just needs some space to sort things out. Once everything is better, I'm sure he'll come around.

[reeba]

were you living with him ALREADY??? 7 months?????

you did move to fast.

[DarkHelmet82]

were you living with him ALREADY??? 7 months?????

you did move to fast.

my ex was engaged at 7 months to her ex... sometimes people do stupid shit

[dani53]

we werent livving together offically but i stayed there alot and had alot of my stuff there he was totally fine with it but i still had my own place.

[dani53]

we werent livving together offically but i stayed there alot and had alot of my stuff there he was totally fine with it but i still had my own place

[smackie9]

Ya better to not do that. You were spending too much time together....it's always good to have a life outside the relationship to do your own thing to keep your independence and identity. Too soon to be acting like a married couple.

[Boisdevie]

Your relationship was so perfect but he needs a break? Needing a break = not sure if I want this relationship.

[DarkHelmet82]

boisdeve things arent always so black and white

[Cinnabella]

boisdeve things arent always so black and white

Sorry just a little spam, about black and White lol, it's rather be black or white isn't it?

[Cinnabella]

He was not cutting you off, I wouldn't say that he is not into you, maybe he's suffering with financial while you were together and he needs to sort it out, and don't want you to know his weak sides... yet? I think you better take some time to see how he will be treating you, and know his intentions. In this case, you can't ask him why anymore, because he had raised reasons. Which you can't be sure if it's true or not. It's a 50/50.