Is he not interested in me anymore?

[iamminzy]

So i met this guy last year at a club and he hit me and ask for my number. I was really shy and I didn't want to give my number away to a stranger either. But now I am more open and less shy now. he wanted to go out with me but I was with my ex at that time. After I broke up with him, he asked me out. He asked me a out a few times but I was already dating another guy and all and wanted to be a couple with him I guess, but recently I called it off with the guy I dated after 5 months.

Anyways we recently patched up and we went clubbing last week with my friend. he tried to dance with me but I didn't like the way he danced. i freaked with another guy and he was dancing around me. I slightly pushed him away and I was just joking around cuz I was laughing and smiling and all. I think asking me out and hitting on me at the club, it has to mean something, but after rejecting him few times in the past, I think he got the idea that I don't like him. Now I think he is interested in my friend and they only met last week/ He asked her out to get groceries with him at 3am in the morning and called her to see what she was doing on friday and she spent the night talking to her about her ex. We all hung out that day to celebrate with my friend who was moving back to Hawaii... I didn't feel good after a few drinks, so he asked me to walk around the block with him and told me to hold onto his arm and help me put my hood up so I won't be cold. He always ask me to touch his arm cuz he was always warm. he would call me cute, pet me on the head, pinch my cheek, pick me up, tease me, punch me, poke, basically do what any guy would to do flirt with a girl and get her attention.

But then, he asked me if he should ask my friend out and I wasn't feel too well from the alcohol, so I didn't care, but wen i sobered up, It hurt a bit. My friend has a good personality, outgoing, hardcore, and I think guys dig that. I am almost like her but except i;m shy, not outgoing, and hardcore as she is.

Iono if he is interested in me anymore or if he was trying to see my reaction and get my attention. he even asked his guy friend to find a guy for me when we went clubbing yesterday. he danced with my friend alot, but then he shift over to me and looked at me the whole time, gave me weird look, and so i slightly pushed his head away and he seemed to like that. he shifted me here and there and picked me up. I am not sure if he was drunk, tipsy, or buzzed to know what he was doing. Iono but it sorta looked like he wanted to kiss me or something with that look of his, but it could be the alcohol. Who knows?.... he grabbed me on my waist and pulled me toward him in front of my girl friend and his guy friend.

he knows that I am shy and said that i was, but I told him I'm not that shy anymore otherwise i wouldn;t be dancing with a guy at the club...

But I can honestly say iono what's going on. I think he lost interested in me or because I pushed away too many times and he doesn't wanna ask me again. ... i'm scared to ask him out and he will reject? or if i do ask him out he will ask me to ask my girl friend out with us... I'm scared and lost...i pushed him away and now i want him back

[Gratedwasabi]

You rejected and friendzoned him.. so he became your friend.

Sorry, too late, you friendzoned yourself. Good news, though, he's a guy. If you put out, he'll regain interest in being more than friends.

[Cerby]

You rejected and friendzoned him.. so he became your friend.

Sorry, too late, you friendzoned yourself. Good news, though, he's a guy. If you put out, he'll regain interest in being more than friends.

I wish it was this easy for guys. . .

[Sixpacj]

But I can honestly say iono what's going on. I think he lost interested in me or because I pushed away too many times and he doesn't wanna ask me again. ... i'm scared to ask him out and he will reject?

Are you like ... retarded? Are you stupid?

You did not want to get with this guy all this time... Why the f... now?

Get on with your life, this one is lost for you.

[nch713]

maybe you want to be with him now because he likes your friend?

[iamminzy]

that was kind of before i knew he liked her, but right now it makes me desire him more

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You're a dumb bitch.

[iamminzy]

you're an asshole, now shut the **** up yo. if you ain't helping then get the hell out of here and quit bitching at people!

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Troll - 1

Dumb Bitch - 0

[iamminzy]

this is where immaturity kicks in... -.-

[Cerby]

It sounds like you're more interested in playing games with him than having him. He likes your friend, so what are you going to do? Try to take him, then once you have him kick him to the curb because the game is over?

Leave him alone, this is a lost opportunity for you and you need to treat it as such.

[iamminzy]

i am not playing games with him... i was dating another guy at that time and didn't want to bother to date another and play games with other guys...

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You didn't like him then, but you like that he showed you attention, now that you have no options. Whether you like it or not, you are playing with this guys emotions.

You truly are a bitch, and that's not me trolling either.

[iamminzy]

then what do you call a guy who cheats on you and goes out with multiple girls at once?

I don't have to explain myself because you guys don't know the entire story, you only heard a part of it, but don't know the rest.

So calling me a bitch, you might as well see how the world is today... if you call me a bitch, then i'm a bitch then but may i remind you that other girls play games with guys and their hearts all the time. Deal with it!

[BackUpOrGetStng]

A guy who cheats on you is an asshole. A guy that goes out with multiple girls at once is just a guy that's dating around, as long as he's not committed to anyone.

Other girls aren't on this forum asking for help on how to do it.

I don't have to explain myself because you guys don't know the entire story, you only heard a part of it, but don't know the rest.

Not really sure what to make of this right here. Sounds like incoherent, nonsensical babble. Anyway, I just assumed that you'd posted the relevant information, which still seems to be the case, actually.