Is thing girl really into more using more?

[jimtheman36]

I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks. She is wild and out there and has lots of baggage and she is only really just starting to open up to me. She said that she has never been out with a nice guy like me before and needs time to think if she can haddle me or not. We have not seen a lot of each other over the last 3 weeks but have seen a bit of each other. Then the other day she said that she wants me to be har boyfriend if that is what I want. I said that is what I want. I know she has lots of male friends and her are some pics of her on her facebook page of her huging 2 different blokes Also I said can I change put on my facebook page that I am in a relationship and she said yes but when I looked at her facebook page it said relationship complicated so I life mime as single. We do not really get to see much of each other and I no she has a few problems in her life. Is she for real and should I trust her or is she using me? She said that she want to keep seeing me and wants to get to know me. I am going to keep it going to keep seeing her and see where this might go. I am just not sure what to think.

[sookie6]

SLOW DOWN and don't give her your heart as long as you're having these doubts. I don't think she is the right person for you...but it could turn to be you never know. The most important thing is to keep some perspective give things time.
After 3 weeks you still have some objectivity but be aware that a toxic person can take over your life in a short time...and you'll lose control at some point. So just be aware I guess.

[Dune]

I would say you can continue in but keep your guard UP. Just 'explore' it and see if things turn out for the better (in the interest of giving her and you a chance). If you see red flags poppin' up, then pack up and leave. You'll be prepared to anyway.

[oldskool83]

why does everyone this day and age feel the week after they meet a girl or guy they need to update their face book page? 1st of all id stay the hell off facebook. its just an odd way of bragging. 2nd i only worry about hanging out with her. i dont every ask if somone will be my g/f. i spend nuff time with them, it becomes apparents we are bf and gf. just spend time with her see where it goes. enjoy each day you get to spend with her. whats so hard about that.

[jimtheman36]

The thing is other day I said what if I said the L word and she said it was to early and I agreed. I just wanted to see what reaction I might get. Than on Tuesday we got close and she said that she wanted to be my girlfriend if that is what I wanted and I said yes that is what I want. Then I let her wash some clothes at my place and they were not dry by the time I took her back to her place and so I lent her a t shirt and a winter jumper and she said that I could come over Wednesday lunch-time and get them back. So I took her back to her place and the next day. I phoned at lunchtime and her phone was switched off them I sent a text and got a reply saying she was busy and I could come round at about 5 or 6 in the evening so I sent her a text to see if she still wanted me to come round and got no reply. I called at 8pm and still got no reply. I text and phoned her on Thursday afternoon and again go no reply. The thing is I met a really great girl a few years ago and we got close and then I phoned and text and got no reply so after a week I stopped as I new it was over. I think now I have lost this girl and my clothes. I feel so silly for falling for the wrong girl. The other way to look at it is that she may still call me in a few days.
On the other side of this I have two other girls to try my luck with and I am ment to be going ceroc dancing to try my magic with one of them.