We were watching the Dateline show "To Catch a Predator" months ago. I said something like "wow, this show is messed up", she said: oh, when I was 16 (below age of consent in our state) I had sex with my dance teacher (male, adult), she said it went on for two years, only close friends knew about it. I told her not to tell my ANYTHING more about her past (wish I said this day 1), she said it shouldn't bother me, that it was a long time ago. Regardless, every time I see a dance anything (store, conversation) I think about it.
I am a firm believer in: What you don't know won't hurt you. There is no comfort in the truth, pain is all you'll find.
Quick background on me... my relationship career started late, and I consider myself fairly inexperienced... first GF was at the age 20-25, dated few people (trying to find GF, had a few FWB [those who didn't make the cut for lack of better explanation]), second GF (above) at age 29, been dating nearly a year.