This is a tricky situation for me where I had to deal with two interests at the same time. I liked Man A who eventually dumped me and while I had a strong interest in Man A, Man B appeared and wanted to see if both of us could be together but my heart was all for Man A and I couldn't give a chance to Man B. Now after 6 months of leaving Man A, I am back in contact with Man B and we just have casual chats once in a while but nothing about what had happened. He hasn't asked me anything about the past but I feel like I want to be given a second chance but am still unsure as we do not have the convenience to meet each other. I will be seeing him in person soon but I don't know how we would react to each other. I feel like I am still interested to know about where things can go with him but I am not sure about him. As far as I know he is not in a serious r/ship with anyone now. I sent him a message to explain to him what has happened generally, that I had a tough time etc. I am not sure if he is going to respond to that. I knew he cared for me a lot and was always there if I needed any help even now when we reconnected. Everything is in the air that I am feeling quite stressed about it. His birthday is coming up as well and I don't know what would be the best way to wish him. I don't want to do anything special as we have not be in contact for more than a year and it will be odd to suddenly send a card or what not...hmm..well I'm just wondering if any of you faced this experience before and how did you deal with it. Thanks.