My boyfriend and I have been together for five months, and we have had our ups and downs. We constantly argued. He's 19 and I'm 23.
Two nights ago, we had an argument and I told him that I think we should be over. He agreed. But later on, we talked about it and he said he doesn't love me. He likes me a lot, that's all. I admitted to him that I love him (he is my first boyfriend).
He had bad past - he had five EXs, some of them cheated on him and they all dumped him.
He said to me he thinks that I am love-blind, because I have got same symptoms as him when he was love-blind. That freaks me out. I don't think I am, the answer is simple: I love him.
Even harder, we stopped having sex two and half months ago. He kept refusing when I requested for it. I asked him last night why, he said it is nothing with me and he is happy enough without sex. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, he is different and really is trustworthy. That's why I liked him at first, he's so innocent.
Like I said we constantly argued, that affects us. So we agreed that we will try for last time, because it would be pointless.
What do you think? Do you think 5 months is still too early?
Thanks for reading.