Hey guys,
I've been in a serious relationship with my bf for 2 years, and it's been full of rolercoasters but mostly good times. We live separately but always have daily contact, either by seeing each other or by phone. This week though, it's been kind of crazy. He's been working a lot, and hasn't called me on his break like he usually does. It's ok, I'm completely fine with it. I'm not going to harp on him and nag him for it. I know he's busy this week, so I decided instead of waiting for his call I'm going to go out and keep myself busy. So for 4 straight days I did my thing, I hung out with the girls, I went downtown and took pics of the city with my fellow photographer. I watched the fireworks. I went to the gym and signed up for kick boxing classes. Basically I had fun and kept myself really busy!
Today he called but I accidentaly missed it. I called him back within the hour and immediately heard the negativity in his voice. I asked maybe something is wrong at home or at work but he said everything's fine. Then he said that today he's free so he can come see me. The thing is I had already made plans with a friend to watch the finale of American Idol and then hit up the gym after. So I told him unfortunately I had already made plans. His voice got even more depressed and negative.
Then I told him, "You know what, on the other hand, I haven't seen you in a while, and I miss you, so why don't you come after American Idol finishes and I will just go to the gym tomorrow?" long pause... then he said, "no I changed my mind".... and then quickly made an excuse to get off the phone....
So.... I am so confused... did I do something wrong? Did he expect me to just drop my plans just because he is all of a sudden free tonight, after not calling me for almost a week?