My bf broke up with me 3 months ago said he no longer feel for me without any reason, it was a over 1 year long distance relationship, he asked to remain friends and I refused him and walked away from him without looking back coz I felt very hurt. since then I deleted all his contact, his emails and so on and I never ever contact him again, he has never contacted me either.
I still have his stuffs at my place. There are all his bike's suit and accessories (pretty expensive stuffs) but his has lost his bike anyway. I do not wish to throw it out because i don't hate him, but i don't use these things, we broken up on bad term .... I was emotional and he was angry and things got ugly at the end. though we have spent so much wonderful time when we were together.
I finally got over the break up and feel that I would be able to see him again without feeling hurt, I would like to return his stuffs as I know he mentioned before that he would get a new bike next year. i would like to move on and would not like to keep my Ex stuffs here that reminds me so much about him, I am not sure what to do.... I was the one who refuse to be his friend and now I feel ODD if I initiated the contact asking him to pick up his things . He probably wouldn't bother about the things either (but i never know). Why should I care since I decided not be his friend, i must say i was emotional during the broke up. I should write him asked him to pick up his thing if he want them, but not wishing to make it like an excuse to see him again. On one hand, I am worrying that may be he will not response at all which will hurt me even more. We don't have any mutual friend, so I can't ask his friend to pick up for him.
What shall I do ?