Hey guys, are you doing? My girlfriend and i have been friends for 8 years now. Since jan 2010 we decided to step up to the next level by having a strong and committed relationship. Despite the fact that we live in different city for now. I have done all i can to make her feel loved, supported and respected. I fly to NYC every 2 months to spend time with her. take her out, romantic dinner, social life etc. For over 10 months now we have been having argument over a male friend of hers living in the same town with her that she keeps texting and calling in what i call inappropriate time which means 1-3 am. Each time, she always have the nerve to teell me thats nothing and she will fix it but the problem keep repeating itself. Yesterday i catch one of there chat by chance. please read this and tell me what you think.
Her- hey u? how ru?
Him- What's up boo
her- Im ok, miss u, r u @ work?
him- Not yet
him- You really miss me ?
her- I said that? then yes, how's yr mom?
him- she's great, When can I see u?
Her- I dont know, not yet baby. I'll let u know anyway.
him- Ok
her- get ready 4 work, ttus.
P.S. She keept saying this guy doesnt mean anything to her even when we are fighting over and over over him. she claims that the guy is not even a close friend, that she doesnt talk to him that often, that was just a regular conversation. Please help.