PLEASE HELP. GF took a break to see her ex gf

[caitlinn]

About 3 weeks ago my girlfriends ex girlfriend got ahold of her. She then told me we needed a break. She has been going to see her and now her ex has moved to Toronto where I live. I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years and she only dated her ex for 2 months. She says she will come back to me eventually. However I dont know if I can take her back if she dates her ex. I just wanted some advice on how to get her back. I know I have been doing the wrong things. I have been begging for her telling her I can give her the better life.

I would really appreciate honesty. Please be blunt.
I dont want to loose her we have already made a life together.

[Drumzzz]

aks if you can join them? :p

i actually don't see anything you can do... you can't force her to stay with you

[VincenzoG91]

You can't have love without respect, and your girlfriend is completely failing to show any respect for you. Do yourself a big favor and dump her now.

I don't know what kinds of "wrong things" you did, but after you dump her, take some time to deal with your issues. Then get out there and start dating again.

[Boisdevie]

If you have to BEG your GF to come back to you then it's over. OVER. FINISHED.
Do I make myself clear.

[smackie9]

Screw that. If she don't want to be with you, you go out and have lots of sex with other girls and forget about her.

[IncognitoSir]

what. she left you to go mess around with her ex and says she'll be back eventually.......delete her number, forget about her.

[Capricorn2112]

Yeah the answer seems pretty obvious here...

"She says she will come back to me eventually."

Why would you invest all your love and emotion into someone who can just walk in and out of your life, at any time? Tell her not to bother coming back, she made her choice when she left. Go have fun, do what you want, find someone who will love you the same way you love them.

[Cerby]

She'll come back when she is done with her ex. . .do you want a gf that is using you for companionship only when she can't find someone else?

Respect yourself and push her out of your life.

[devonbrown]

I agree with everyone. You shouldn't have to beg her, or anyone, to be with you. You deserve better than that. Everyone deserves better than that. Right now you are missing her, but that will fade with time. Just concentrate on making yourself happy and don't waste precious time and breath on someone who doesn't hold you in high regard.