Originally Posted by
Cubby
Honestly I'd be thinking about if I'm REALLY REALLY REALLY ABSOLUTELY sure that this is the right thing to do.
But I'm a cynic when it comes to marriage. But I would be worried about that whole concept of "ok, this is it, this is the path you're choosing and this is the person you're choosing to walk that path with"
I'm sorry, I hope I don't freak you out - but I think that's what my biggest thought would be.
Other than that - yeah, the superficial stuff like, the dress, the bridesmaides stuff, the details of the party, etc... (but those seem so minor compared to the "am I absolutely sure" question.
Originally Posted by
surfer808
I'd be worried about how you get along. Are their any issues? Issues after marriage tend to surface more and more not less and less. A compatible mate can help get you through financial and other rough periods. I wouldn't be focused on supporting financially as much as focusing on truly loving each other.
I'd say those were things you should have thought about before asking/accepting a marriage proposal.
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