Please Help, I'm super upset.

[BrokenHeartBeau]

Well,

I was dating a guy for about 3 months.
It got serious pretty quick.
He said I love you within 2 weeks without having sex.

ANYWAYS,

Our communication was horrible when weren't with me.
But I loved him like crazy (Still do).

The lack of communication was KILLING ME, we got into arguements about it.

Anyways THIS IS WHAT I NEED ADVICE ON.

We broke up 3 days ago.

He came over yesterday and basically need to take things slow and be friends for a bit. I'm confused what does this mean?

He sent this in a text...

" I just want to take things slow and visit you often during the summer"
Then I sent.

"What does it mean to take things slow? Doesn't it mean **** you, your not good enough for me"

He replied.
No, it just mean I'm to stresses with things going on in my life to have a relationship and I'm truly and honestly sorry 4 how I treated you during the time we spent together I still have feeling for you just give it time please"


NOTE:

I was his first girlfriend.
He lost his virginity to me.
He's 20 and I'm 21 (We're born in the same year)
We only new eachother 2 or 3 weeks before we jumped into a relationship.
He's a huge dork many women call him ugly. I'm really pretty.
He's having family and money trouble lost of bills.
I'm high maintance.
I even offered to be friends with bennfits and he turnt that down

He sent a text this morning " I just want to be friends until I figure things out" And asked does this mean move and he said No.

I'm super confused

[bigdaddy863]

if you love him give him time he answered you question he is probely one of the sensative guys that dosent wanna bring you down with him if things get worse and the reason he probely dont wanna be friends with benefits is because he might fell like hes using you just give him time to get everything in order