I have just been thinking. There are so many things I love about my BF and we get along really well. I know we have had a few issues in the past but we have sorted through these all. We have talked about the future and what we want and where would would like to be in a few years time and we our goals coincide which is great. The main problem is with our sexual relationship. We have only been together a year and we would be lucky to have sex once a week. We generally lie in bed watching tv talking about lots of different things which is great but there is no sex... no passion when we do have sex.. and generally i have to do it all... he never goes down on me and IF he fingers me its only for a little bit then wipes his fingers on my belly or leg after... I am the sort of person that loves long good kisses and he doesnt ever... there is always an excuse... its only ever pecks... Although this frustrates me there are too many other things that I like about this relationship... Or is this just something that happens to a relationship as it progresses. You just become mates instead?? Things is I like all that other stuff... like kissing... and bubble baths etc etc lol Hmmmmm...